UNDER EVALUATION

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 I CAN BLOG ABOUT WHO I AM, WHAT I LIKE TO DO, AND TELL STORIES OF MY FAULTS, EMBARRASSMENTS, WEIRD MISHAPS, AND EVEN ACCOMPLISHMENTS. BY BLOGGING ABOUT MYSELF IT WOULD PROVIDE ONLOOKERS IDEA OF HOW I INTERACT AND COMMUNICATE DURING EVENTS OR HOW I COMPOSE MYSELF. THROUGH MY EYES- MY STORIES- IT’S EASY FOR ME TO EVALUATE MYSELF, BUT WHAT IF SOMEONE ELSE SHINES NEW LIGHT TO WHO YOU THOUGHT YOU WERE WHEN THEY EVALUATE YOU?...

TAKING A SELF-ASSESSMENT QUIZ THIS WEEK REGARDING COMMUNICATION I WALKED AWAY CONFIDENT IN THE WAY I INTERACT WITH OTHERS. UNDER EVALUATION BY FAMILY AND COWORKERS RESULTS WERE SURPRISINGLY SIMILAR. BUT IF THAT WAS NOT THE FINAL APPEAL WHAT IF RESULTS WERE VASTLY DIFFERENT? PERSPECTIVE OF MYSELF WOULD CHANGE, BEHAVIOR WOULD CHANGE, AND EVEN MY APPROACH OF EVENTS AND PEOPLE WOULD CHANGE. OH, ABSOLUTELY!

WITH THAT IN MIND, IT IS IMPORTANT THAT WE COMMUNICATE WHETHER OR NOT IN THE FIELD OF EARLY CHILDHOOD IN A WAY THAT OTHERS CAN DETERMINE OUR REASONS OF INTERACTION AND COMMUNICATION. WE HAVE TO MAKE SENSE. WE DO NOT WANT TO EXCHANGE MIXED SIGNALS OR MESSAGES THAT COULD EFFECT AN ANTICIPATING OUTCOME. FINDING NEW LIGHT UNDER EVALUATION, I HAVE RECOGNIZED THAT HOW PEOPLE SEE ME BOTH PERSONALLY AND PROFESSIONALLY HAS EVERY IMPLICATION OF THE TYPE OF COMMUNICATOR I AM. WITH LITTLE ANXIETY, “SOFT” AGGRESSIVENESS, AND FINE LISTENING SKILLS I AM GLAD THAT OTHERS AGREE. THIS HELPS MY JOURNEY IN THE FIELD OF EARLY CHILDHOOD EDUCATION AS AN EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATOR. WHAT A RELIEF!...

WHAT WE PERCEIVE AND LEARN FROM CULTURALLY

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“In our diverse world, perceptual challenges can present barriers to competent communication, including narrow perspectives, stereotyping, and prejudice” (O’Hair, et al., 2015, pg. 43).

It is hard to ignore the fact that some people (or a lot of people) communicate with me differently because maybe I’m white, maybe I am female, speak English, and have brown hair/green eyes. I see people all the time, every day interacting a lot. Agoraphobia is NOT in my nature… But maybe it’s me? Maybe I am the one struggling to communicate with others… HUMMM?

I live in Houston Texas. With a diverse population, culture is undoubtfully here. I see myself struggling to communicate when I don’t understand another person’s language. Just last week, I went to the hospital to see my friend who just had a baby. I couldn’t find an entrance to the hospital because of all the construction so I asked a worker where to go. He looked at me as I repeated myself. All of a sudden he said, “No Engles” which indicates he doesn’t speak English. Then it got awkward. I walked away saying, “Gracias” still lost. Due to cultural differences and a lack of knowing each other’s languages, communication was difficult BUT I did find my friend and her baby.

From this experience, I do find myself communicating differently but it’s because I am aware, I try to get my “S.O.S” or message across somehow with as much knowledge and curtesy as I can give. I want to learn of other cultures and I know I live in a diverse world so with encounters like this I can only laugh at myself and accept differences.

Strategies to Communicate Better:

  Karl Krayer

• 1)      Be mindful
• 2)      Respect
• 3)      Be accurate with personal perception  (O’Hair, et al., 2015)

Janet Gonzalez-Mena

• 1)      Look through other’s eyes
• 2)      Be open minded
• 3)      Be accepting            (Gonzalez-Mena, 2010)

These strategies by Krayer and Gonzalez-Mena help families and professionals communicate better when diversity is a trend –not an obstacle. Cultures coincide. I have found these strategies noteworthy and revolutionizing in order to improve my communication skills whether in a classroom or figuring out where the entrance is to a building.

Works Cited

O’Hair, D., Wiemann, M., Mullin, D.I., & Teven, J. (2015). Real Communication (3^rd Ed.). New York, NY: Bedford/St. Martin’s

Gonzalez-Mena, J. (2010). 50 Strategies for Communicating and Working with Diverse Families. Upper Saddle River, NJ: Pearson Education, Inc.

I LOVE LUCY

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I Love Lucy is an iconic 1950’s television sitcom that has impressed all types of audiences for decades. Lucille Ball is one of my most beloved actresses that I see as a great communicator both on screen and off. According to biographies and other literatures written about Lucille Ball she was the first successful lady in television history to become shared CEO of Hollywood’s Desilu Productions alongside her husband Desi Arnaz producing and acting in many of their own films. “Desi-Lu”… get it? LOL!

The purpose of this blog is to find what sort of communication skills and styles characters display on television with or without sound. What better example for me than using Lucille Ball and husband Desi Arnaz who once starred in the boundless sitcom, I Love Lucy. This is what I have determined…

I Love Lucy’s season 1 episode 3, “The Diet” (1951) illustrates zany Lucy (Ball) who wants to shed weight so that she could perform in Ricky’s (Arnaz) night club finding her spot in show business (ironic, right?). After 4 days of diet and exercise, even though she was not nominated, Lucy managed to fit the required dress for the performance then sneaking on stage to sing and dance to “Cuban Pete”-originally sung by Louis Armstrong in 1937- with Ricky who was surprised it was her in the dress and it was her as his partner.

Body movement is nonverbal

Facial expressions are nonverbal

Signaling is nonverbal

 

The communication I find intriguing during this particular episode is based on what authors, Dan O’Hair and colleagues (2015) suggest as nonverbal communication. With or without sound, I see where this is relevant. Moreover, according to Dan O’Hair and colleagues (2015) nonverbal communication involves no words so engagements like signaling, emotions, body movements, etc. are apparent as I watch Lucy take on diet, exercise, and performance. Her nonverbal communication such as her body movements display fatigue in her posture as she runs around her apartment, her emotions in her face show determination to lose weight (either that or her tongue hanging out as everyone eats a juicy steak in front of her. Poor Lucy is stuck with a celery stick). And, signaling like popping gum, holding her hand on her hip as she bobs her leg, and swirling her purse as she sings and dances shows nonverbal communication that she is “in shape” and able to make quite a performance proving she can fit in a required dress and can handle show business. She proved Ricky wrong.

This episode of I Love Lucy, “The Diet” (1951) signifies what Dan O’Hair and colleagues (2015) explore regarding types of communication that expose various actions, relationships, and behaviors with or without use of word –with or without sound. Lucy and Ricky’s relationship based on their nonverbal communication skills, especially Lucy’s, proves that content of dialogue, transitions, and yes signaling, emotions, and body movements is what I feel made I Love Lucy one of the most watched television sitcoms during the 1950’s and still remembered. I believe both Lucille Ball and Desi Arnaz were able to empower successful communication on screen and off.

An “aha” moment that would help me and colleagues when we consider communication skills and styles is that leadership is essential especially if we want to aspire in the field of Early Childhood where communication skills is imperative. As Lucille Ball became a leader of Desilu Productions and as her character Lucy was determined to make a mark in show business, using types of communication skills, even without words or sound, can help us grow and help us land where we want to be as educators in Early Childhood.

Works Cited

IMDb (n.d.). I Love Lucy: The Diet. (TV Episode 1951). Retrieved from http://imdb.com/title/tt0819061

Wikipedia (n.d.). Cuban Pete. Retrieved from http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cuban_Pete

Youtube (n.d.). I Love Lucy- Cuban Pete and Sally Sweet. Retrieved from http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6-hk_7Ln-MM

COMMUNICATION IS INFLUENTIAL

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My mom and I <3

I asked my mom a simple question, “why do we communicate?” –like her and I do. My mom told me because it’s a joy to say “I love you”, express emotion by words, to dance, sing, slap hands, thumbs up… My mom told me we communicate so that we have one another. Wow.

With that said, my mom is someone I truly know who is a competent communicator, she knows competence. Growing up, my mom has taught me to love, read, dance, braid, (somewhat) cook, fold towels- you name it, my mom taught me everything through communication. This ideal form of communication is known as relational context. According to early childhood professionals, relational context exhibits relationship (like my mom and I) of past history, expectations, shared experiences, and maybe a tad influence of genetics (LOL).

Communicating with my mom, her behaviors promote optimism, freedom, charismatic charm, and openness to support and opinion. Her behaviors to communicate impact effectiveness of desire and motivation as I see in myself toward personal and professional goals I aspire every day. Because of relational context I have opportunity to grow and learn from one of the most influential people I know.

As I have learned from my mom, I only hope that my optimism and supportive behaviors, in fact, model her so that I can be just as inspiring. I owe it to my mom to treat others as I am treated. Through communication’s relational context I see and believe I can achieve success in the field of Early Childhood Education where communication (to me) reflects my mom’s competence and skills.

Works cited

 O'Hair, D., Wiemann, M., Mullin, D. I., & Teven, J. (2015). Real communication (3rd. Ed). New York: Bedford/St. Martin's.